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nintendogurl1990
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31 Jul 2010, 6:26 pm

OK, so there's this girl who I wanted to get together with again. We were friends back at my old school. I haven't seen her since I transfered to a new school (which by the way I graduated from this year.) But getting back to the point I sent her an email suggesting she join Facebook. She did, and I sent a friend request to her, plus some other friend suggestions of people she knew. She accepted those requests, but she didn't accept mine! I couldn't believe it. I was the one who invited her to Facebook. I cried because I miss her so much and I REALLY want to see her again. I sent her a message asking whe she ignored my request, but she hasn't replied yet. What should I do? I don't want to lose my friend, but this hurts SO much. :cry:



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31 Jul 2010, 6:34 pm

How long ago did you send that message? Maybe she just hadn't had time to reply to it yet. She might have just overlooked your friend request or maybe it didn't show up for her for some reason. You could try adding her again.


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31 Jul 2010, 7:38 pm

nintendogurl1990 wrote:
OK, so there's this girl who I wanted to get together with again. We were friends back at my old school. I haven't seen her since I transfered to a new school (which by the way I graduated from this year.) But getting back to the point I sent her an email suggesting she join Facebook. She did, and I sent a friend request to her, plus some other friend suggestions of people she knew. She accepted those requests, but she didn't accept mine! I couldn't believe it. I was the one who invited her to Facebook. I cried because I miss her so much and I REALLY want to see her again. I sent her a message asking whe she ignored my request, but she hasn't replied yet. What should I do? I don't want to lose my friend, but this hurts SO much. :cry:


What a b***h. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone like that.



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31 Jul 2010, 7:38 pm

nintendogurl1990 wrote:
OK, so there's this girl who I wanted to get together with again. We were friends back at my old school. I haven't seen her since I transfered to a new school (which by the way I graduated from this year.) But getting back to the point I sent her an email suggesting she join Facebook. She did, and I sent a friend request to her, plus some other friend suggestions of people she knew. She accepted those requests, but she didn't accept mine! I couldn't believe it. I was the one who invited her to Facebook. I cried because I miss her so much and I REALLY want to see her again. I sent her a message asking whe she ignored my request, but she hasn't replied yet. What should I do? I don't want to lose my friend, but this hurts SO much. :cry:


What a b***h. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone like that.



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31 Jul 2010, 7:54 pm

I lost my best friend in middle school. We were best friends for 5 years. We haven't spoken to eachother in 3 years. He won't add me to his friends on Facebook even though we have about 80 mutual friends. I was there for him even when no one else was. One year I was the only person who showed up to his birthday party. I never completely got over losing him as my best friend because we did a lot of things together. From my experience I have found out that some people who you think are your friend don't want to be your friend, but are stuck being your friend until they've lost contact with you because they want to avoid the uncomfortable situation of telling you that they don't want to be your friend.