Feeling like I am at the bottom of the list

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Recently, I went over to a friend's place for New Year's Eve week and slept over there. However, she had made other plans with her boyfriend and his family by doing things with his parents. In this case, I wasn't invited and had to find other friends to do things with. On top of that, she ran off with another friend who doesn't trust new people, but has gotten along with me before. However, this girl lost her mother and moved to a group home. In this case, I again got left out and had to find other people to go see a movie with or hang out by myself. Moreoever, she gets to see this woman all the time and I don't get to see her that much due to the fact that I am in school.

On top of that, I also feel like she has been relatively distant with me, everytime I talk to her on the phone. I really feel like I am not high on her list and she really isn't interested in me, because I am not her boyfriend. I also feel like no matter what I do for her, it's never enough. Now, I am going to a sporting event and love her to death. However, some how I still feel like I am really angry at her and want to cry my eyes out.

I have a friend who experienced this type of behaviour from another friend. Some times people don't think of others feelings - it is not intentional but still not nice. May be speak to her if you are close friends, she might not even be aware of her behaviour.

Hope you feel better soon.

I've been there more than a few times. "Friends" of mine would only hang out with me if they didn't have anything better to do, etc. After a while, I just cut contact off with them.

Yeah often times I feel like that. Its gets annoying because Im always the ones contacting my friends or going to peoples rooms, etc. Nobody ever comes to my room and its like, if I always stayed in my dorm, I'd be a huge loner. Like its very easy to be a loner. A similar situation happened to be recently where my friend didnt have time for me. She didnt even stop to talk to me anymore in public places when we ran into each other and its like wtf? I have acquiantances who talk to me way more. Now she lives off campus, so its like f**k this, where not friends anymore.

I made up with this woman and we talked it over for a while last night. Infact, she feels really bad for what she did.