Itv already signed the petition but just to let you know...
I'm the Mother of a 6 year old autistic daughter.
When she was 5 I was STILL changing diapers, getting maybe 3 or 4 hours sleep a night, because I refuse to medicate her into submission just to make my life easier,
and even now it can turn into a wrestling match to get her in the car,
to brush her hair,
her teeth,
get dressed,
sit down and eat.
come inside,
... pick something.( I started lifting weights again just to be able to stay ahead of her
)
She hasn't been in a store for over a year because she goes Off! Into a screaming meltdown.
She would run right in front of a car if she had the opportunity because she hasn't grasped the concept of "It will kill you!"
Every MINUTE of her life she is watched and kept from harm by either myself or her older sister.
Get my hair done... I haven't had my hair done in years...not vacuum, I'm lucky if I get to vacuum once a week. My dream is to have a "maid"
That is the reality I face every day. Oh wait, I didnt mention the FEAR. That CONSTANT fear and worry that never leaves you and lives in the back of your mind at ALL times.
What will happen to her when I die.? You yearn to know that she'll not be put in an institution and that people will always be kind to her and care for her and not let any harm or negativity enter her life. But there's NO guarentee of any of that. So you worry and live in fear.
And I'm one of the LUCKY parents,
Shes miles ahead of all her classmates, is smart as a whip, and can read, and is verbal.
I would never "cure" her because shes not "sick" shes just different, like me. She makes me smile when nothing else can and is the epitomy of "pure joy." She keeps me young, fit, and laughing and eager to start each day to see it thru her eyes. It sickens me that someone could ever say they find death preferable to raising an autistic child.("Gimmee your kid and just go kill yourself" is what rolled thru my mind when I heard that.)
However, my point is, that IS what it's like, for lots of parents so you might want to actually "raise" an autistic child before you decide to make such a blanket statement about how much is "faked" or not.
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If only closed minds came with closed mouths. Lau: "But where would they put their feet?" Postpaleo: "Up their ass."