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Do you like your job?
Yes - it's my dream job 13%  13%  [ 5 ]
Yes - it's my dream job 13%  13%  [ 5 ]
Yes - but I'd rather be doing something else 13%  13%  [ 5 ]
Yes - but I'd rather be doing something else 13%  13%  [ 5 ]
No - not really but I can tolerate it 15%  15%  [ 6 ]
No - not really but I can tolerate it 15%  15%  [ 6 ]
No - I detest it and can't wait to do something else 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
No - I detest it and can't wait to do something else 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
Other (with this crew there always has to be an option) 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
Other (with this crew there always has to be an option) 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
Total votes : 40

MsTriste
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16 Feb 2006, 1:52 pm

Do you like your job?
If not, what would you rather be doing?



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16 Feb 2006, 2:16 pm

aylissa wrote:
Do you like your job?
If not, what would you rather be doing?


I hated my jobs a lot more until I learned I had AS. Now, I'm happy just staying employed. My gifts keep me getting new jobs, but it is getting harder. If it weren't for knowing about AS, I would be very unhappy still.

Before, I didn't realize I was socially tone-deaf, so, like a really bad contestant on American Idol, I stood up on stage thinking I was hitting all the right notes, doing all the right things. From my point-of-view, it was terribly unfair that I was not succeeding in my career like I should. I was doing things nobody else could, I was making every effort to be the perfect employee, etc. I've come to accept that, on the upward sloping hill of my career, AS is a treadmill and that I should focus my definition of success on other things and just try to break even career-wise. It sounds depressing, I suppose, but career is just one aspect of life.



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16 Feb 2006, 3:10 pm

After 25 years, I've considered a career shift, but it wouldn't be easy.

Lets see, what are my transferrable skills?
I'm very good at sitting in a little dark room looking at eyeballs...

It's not a bad job, but it's not the profession it was a quarter century ago. I'll probably look to part-time work in a few years, once the house is paid for.

Any suggestions for low stress jobs, that pay a living wage, for a quite literate aspie?



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16 Feb 2006, 5:09 pm

I'm on disabililty from my job as director of nursing due to people treating me poorly. So I detest that job. Fortunately I never have to go back. Also, because the people who made my life miserable are all of a different race than me, I have the federal gov't in my corner and may actually get some money out of the situation. But I would never want to live through that again.

I'm totally afraid of hating my next job. I have an interview Friday for a psychiatric nurse job at the hospital, and on the one hand it may be a good fit for me but on the other I'm just gun-shy about jobs right now.

I'm currently being considered for a Master's program, and hope eventually to work for myself doing research on things that interest me (such as AS). It's years away, though, and I'm not young.

Sigh.



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16 Feb 2006, 6:37 pm

I'm on the fine line between No - But I Can Tolerate it and No - I Hate it

I think of quitting soon every single day, but every single day once I go home I feel relaxed and think nothing of it until the next day.



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16 Feb 2006, 7:30 pm

my job is ok i want to get a better one but I don't know where, I currently work at Wendy's fast food i have worked there almost 7 years (in July) I was hired when I was 15. I may go back to school so I can get a degree and a better job but I hate school I almsot didn't pass high school. college is worse I think.