Am I a Lesbian or What?

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So here's the thing:

I have always dated both men and women.

I am only attracted to women.

I have no sex drive, and am happier the less often I have to have sex, because I have never enjoyed it much in any form.

Am I a lesbian, bi, or asexual? Opinions please.

I would guess lesbian. Most gays have tried both (how else do you find out?) so you probably aren't bi.

Then again, labels are meaningless unless you wish to flaunt them. It matters more how you are feeling at any given moment.

Id say your probably just lesbian. You should probably think about how it was it for you when you dated men and how did this differ when you dated women? Did you find dating women more furfilling? In the end its up to the person whether they want to date the sex their not attracted to. Some people still continue.