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I know that alot of straight aspie male have a tough getting dates from women.
But I wonder do gay aspie men have tough time getting dates from nt gay men.

I tried to be str8 for years due to my religious and general upbringing and only came out (i.e. made peace with who I am) in my late 20s. It seems to be easier for gay guys to meet depending on the situation. I have been in a long term r/ship with a guy since 1996 - he unfortunately now lives in a different city and I'm going to visit him tomorrow for a while. I'm sure he's also an Aspie though, as he certainly doesn't think like an NT.
If one is thinking of meeting for fun only it's quite easy but to meet decent guys for a meaningful relationship can be much more difficult.
There appear to be quite a high proportion of gay Aspies in fact.

No, dating guys is really a lot easier.

The first minute i registered on qruiser (a swedish LGBTQ dating site), three guys asked if I wanted to have sex with them. One of them wanted to have a threesome. Thankfully I chickened out.

Sex is really easy in the gay world, intellectually/emotionally rewarding relationships come much harder. But it's possible if you try.

One thing. Most guys (and girls) are used to braindead come-ons and mind numbing conversations with people (read guys) just looking for a quick piece of ass. As an aspie (therefore "not" braindead), you're very likely to stand out in a positive way.

Good luck everyone!