hale_bopp wrote:
I would greatly appreciate if anyone had any ideas they could at about where to start, what to say and how to get noticed.
I have some great "mind tools" which might help:
If you find it hard talking to others, realise that "hey, I'm perfectly righteous in what I'm doing. if this sucker doesn't like what i'm saying they can either let me know or **** off". (Only works if you're no trying to hide anything so clear your mind first).
Negativity is only damaging - Talking to yourself positively is a good way to clear your mind. Talking to others while only being positive in your speech (and I mean down to the very letters) is magic in the way that it changes peoples reactions to what you're saying. Eg, instead of "don't do that", say "stop".
Set goals which are realistic, yet not pathetic. The way I set goals is think...what do I want? WRITE THEM DOWN. Honestly, writing down goals has been magic for me. And this one I came up with myself: set a path to your goal. and write that down. And make a deadline for each goal. Write that down too. If you actually do all that and remain realistic, more often than not you'll Win. In other words, you'll get what you want.
I just thought I'd share all of that because it's worked for me and I like this idea you have.