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02 Feb 2015, 10:06 am

My parents, other relatives, the Japanese program at my local university, lots of people have said I should go to Japan to work. Well, what they don't recognize is this: I have one condition for going to Japan.

That condition is attainment of sex reassignment surgery (SRS), so that in Japan I can be unambiguously legally female (as Japan recognizes change of sex after SRS). If I don't attain that, then I will not go to Japan to work.

I wonder if I should communicate this condition the next time, say, my parents bring this issue up.


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02 Feb 2015, 10:11 am

I say, "Go for it" and tell them.



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02 Feb 2015, 10:28 am

Fnord wrote:
I say, "Go for it" and tell them.


Got it.

This has been my secret condition for several years. "Go to Japan." "Well, are you going to help me get what I need done? I've waited since the age of 8 for this!" is a conversation that has played in my head over and over again!

I told the teacher, but said the condition was a secret, as I did not feel the subject appropriate to bring up with her.


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15 Feb 2015, 12:12 pm

My teacher responded with "その条件を満たしてください。" Translation: "Please fulfill that condition."

Oh, I wish it were so easy.


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