my sister poor taste in friends

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I think my sister needs better friends.

She has a group of friends that don't treat her like a friend. She introduced one friend named Maya to her other friends, Josie, Jay, and Sally. They all do stuff together and haven't included my sister in quite some time. Sally likes to butt into my sister's business and start stuff with her. Sally likes to try to turn the other friends against my sister. The other friends don't stick up for my sister. Josie and Maya both work at the same store. They aren't helping my sister get a job at that store even though she wants one. Josie and Jay just got married to each other last year

Just when I think my sister is distancing herself from them, she gets involved with them again.

What do you think?

She needs to leave that sh!t behind.....

I wish she would, but she takes forever to completely walk away from crappy friendships.

Perhaps you can say something to these people, Elaine.

I'd much rather keep my distance from these people. Jay has had a huge crush on me for nearly 6 years and I don't want to deal with him or his wife.

My sister knew Jay way before he got involved with Josie. My sister got involved with Sally when Sally started attending her church. My sister has known Maya for 12 years. It seems my sister's friendships with Jay and Maya went downhill when Jay got involved with Josie and Sally entered the mix.

So Jay could have been using your sister to get around you. He sees that doesn't work and stays away. Josie his wife don't like you probably cuz her man wants you. Sally has no life. Too bad Maya and your sister can't leave that drama behind.

I think he wanted to get access to me and use my sister's basketball hoop too. If he thought he had a chance with me, he would have never gotten with Josie. I think he married her because he was desperate for a wife. What Josie sees in him, I will never know.

Keep your distance

Why not tell your sister in a straight forward way why you feel these friends are bad for her? Or maybe send a link to "ten signs your friend is bad" on google?