Honestly, I think ABA has its place, and it's not in the trash. Not all the time.
*dodges rotten tomatoes*
Seriously, there are so many variations of ABA, and there are so many varying issues and degrees of severity on the spectrum, that I think that saying "I would not like to go through this" is an unfair way to evaluate it. Maybe you woulnd't have/didn't/don't need intervention of this type. This is not the case with every individual. There is a difference between torturing someone for self-stimming (which seems to be how most people picture ABA) and preventing someone from harming themselves; a difference between programming a person like a computer and changing some behaviors a person exhibits which interfere with their functioning while not changing the core of them.
Might I add, To say that spectrum behaviors which are seen by many people as maladaptive are the core part of your being is a little unfair to you.