Every day feels like a typical day when friends hang out with you but sometimes it can be a little too much. For someone such as yourself you feel like one moment you take advantage of the times with them or they take advantage of you. It’s never a bad thing it’s that sometimes you both take advantage of the time so you give them company. When they make you do something you don’t want to and you’re like, “I’m not doing that,” it makes them feel uncomfortable and it turns into an argument. But just know that inside and out, your own friends never get tired of you especially when it comes to arguments and times that you feel like you’re drifting apart from them. As you get older it starts to matter more like, “Who’s gonna have your back in life?” And you have to turn to your significant other for advice as if she’s your only friend. What this means is through good and bad times, no matter how obsesssive they get over they you need your help or advice. They will only show up briefly cause they need you in life to help them and then you take advantage of those times until you drift apart. Enjoy the now because pretty soon your friends will matter to you the most that you’ll need them and never be there for you from your mid 20s up until your 30s when everyone’s married and out of contact. You’ll therefore wake up old and recount that you never lived a moment in your life that it was youthful and glorious as it seemed. I’ve lived my life so far learning that so I’ll never forget it. Pretty soon it’ll matter that the bad times of the past are all just silly memories and you and your friends will laugh around the campfire at how much it once was serious and not then til now. Friends are def your rock. Appreciate them no matter how obsessive they get over you. This message is for people with friend issues.
09 Feb 2019, 10:55 am
