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Jakki
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15 Jul 2020, 7:06 am

Wonder if there is something , she is jealous about you .? Sounds like maybe she might have some kind of psychopathy going on ?


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15 Jul 2020, 7:11 am

auntblabby wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
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what would happen if you gave her what for?


i did lash out at her actually a few months ago and she just laughed at me.

by lash out i mean raise my voice at her

is she bigger than you and with a louder voice?



shes 3 inches shorter than me and weighs a lot less



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16 Jul 2020, 9:21 pm

Jamesy wrote:
i forgot to mention that me and this woman got along really well when we met for the first time.

for some reason though she started bullying me?


I got along with my "bully" until my social status started to rise. My NT husband says the "bully" saw me as a threat and was testing me (I failed) so attempted to put me in my place. Maybe I was supposed to banter with the "bully" --- "oh, my nose is too big, well you should see your ears from this angle..." and we were supposed to laugh together and I would take my place just beneath him, but I don't get along like that, so I bristled with his "teasing" hence "failing". Ah, well.

Wishing your situation clears up soon.