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nick007
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13 Jun 2020, 4:49 am

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When someone is majorly suffering from a mental illness for a while, they may feel like it's a permanent state that's untreatable, especially if the person has tried getting treatment for a bit & it hasn't really helped.

I fell into a psychotic depression after me & my 1st girlfriend broke up. I was kind of slipping into it for a while which was some of the reason we broke up. I considered suicide cuz she was the 1st person I ever really connected with. I also felt like I made things worse for her in the end & I couldn't forgive myself for that. I realized during our relationship how much I HATED being single & sleeping alone. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to find anyone else & I was also afraid that if by some miracle I did manage to, I would f#ck things up for them too.


That cool to listen to men! I glad you fix your life.
How did you get your first relationship, how old ware you?
I was 20 & we met on a forum & we had some weird things in common like dyslexia, ADD in my case & ADHD for her, & some OCD so we really connected. Like Jagz mentioned, it's hard not to want to kill yourself if someone is your life & she was my life. I do have my parents & I do love them but we had major problems getting along till I moved out at 30. They never really understood the various things I was dealing with & were very critical as a result. My 2nd girlfriend was also my life & my current is now.


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02 Aug 2020, 9:03 am

My boyfriend apparently would. He has said on multiple occasions that if we ever broke up he'd just kill himself because he wouldn't have anything to live for anymore ...



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02 Aug 2020, 11:17 am

If you say "no", you just haven't met the wrong one yet :twisted:


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02 Aug 2020, 11:27 am

green0star wrote:
My boyfriend apparently would. He has said on multiple occasions that if we ever broke up he'd just kill himself because he wouldn't have anything to live for anymore ...


That's a major red flag for an abusive relationship.

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If you leave me, I'll kill myself


Any person that claims they would end their life if their partner left them is an emotional abuser. It is a hostage situation really. You should talk with someone you trust in real life (like your parents?) or on the forum about the situation and make sure they take it seriously. I understand I don't know much about your situation beyond the few lines of text you typed.