Let 3 groups hate you

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I copied this advice from someone who said 'let 10 people hate you'.

I don't care enough about 10 individuals to know if they hate me. They're probably indifferent tbh.

But I do have 3 groups I don't care if they hate me: sporting rivals, political opponents & self-appointed cool people.

Everyone else I try to make like me but around those kinds of people, I just be myself. Cos I know what they hate me for & I know I value that as a net positive. And I know it's not specifically me they hate either, it's just that I'm not cool and I'm in groups they dislike.

Three groups who hate me

1. The people at my last congregation because they have goofy ideas about people who don't line up with their views or beliefs. It still hurts because I would have liked to have been friends with those people
2. The people at one of last jobs -
3. People who insecure and unhappy

However, I have my share of people who have decided they dislike me and though it hurts, I have learned that I don't have to associate with them. For example, I learned that one of my neighbors decided she does not like me. She started dropping hints that she does not want me around.


For example, she used to let me walk with her and her dogs. One night, she brushed me off with excuses. When I told her she was being rude, the woman stone-walled me before I walked away, only to have her talk about me to another neighbor.

People who hate Germans
Ableist jerks
Transphobic as*holes
Conceded jocks like the guy on that YouTube commercial who goes on about Testosterone

3 Groups that hate me:

1. Jocks/Toxic males.
2. Alt-Right Fascists & Other Trump Supporters.
3. Women who discover their "Jedi Mind Games" do not work on me.

I have a better idea -

1. People who find they can't control or use me
2. Overly protective parents of disabled children
3. People who find out that I am not just another "Disabled person" to feel sorry for.


Actually the list goes on but I will leave it here