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badRobot
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03 Oct 2021, 6:57 am

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Badrobot I think you were missing the point. Babybird said ''I know where you're coming from'' and said that they went through the same as I'm going through - working with lazy people. They were not implying that I was the lazy one.

Yes, yes, yes. And she didn't try to use your job to insult me. OK.



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But...I don't sit around drinking tea. I never said that. I'm the one working and don't get time for a 10-minute break at all, while the others sit and drink tea and coffee for 2 hours or more, while they should be helping me. I'm a fast worker, but I am only one human, I can't get all the coaches clean on my own, which means the coaches aren't being washed because I don't have time. The others have plenty of time to wash the coaches when they've finished fueling and parking up, but they don't, they just sit around and do nothing when they're being paid and should be helping to keep the coaches clean.


You should not mention drinking tea part at all. It makes it look like you are just jealous, like this is your only concern, that they get to sit and drink tea and you are not.

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To make you get it, I will give an example that may be simpler for you. Let's just say you and me work in a supermarket on night shifts and there are 3 other people also doing the same shift. Four of us are trained to use the check-outs but you're not, so your job is to stock the shelves. Our job is also to stock shelves when we're not on the check-outs. The nights are quiet in the supermarket and only requires one or two check-outs to be open, but all 4 of us are on the check-outs having a laugh and a chat among ourselves. Then the supermarket closes halfway through our shift, so the check-outs don't need to be used any more, but instead of helping you stock up the shelves, we all just go and sit in the lounge for the rest of the shift (which is like 2 hours or more) and drink tea, while you're still out there trying to get all the shelves stocked up on your own but can't quite manage to do it all on your own, so the next day there are a lot of empty shelves, which shouldn't be so.

If I'm paid to stock shelves until then end of shift and I'm doing it, I don't care what others do. If management would confront me about empty shelves I would tell them to check CCTV footage and they will see I'm the only one doing it.

People not doing their job properly is an issue that concerns these people and employer, not me.



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03 Oct 2021, 7:02 am

Well that's just your opinion, but most people in my position would see it as unfair, and it is wrong. The boss is 100% on my side with this. We have cameras so any proof will be on there.


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03 Oct 2021, 7:15 am

Unfair: YES.
Surprising: NO.

It's not a question of competence vs. likability, but rather balance. If someone is totally bad at their job, they won't last long. If someone is really good at their job, but lacks social desirability, they'll experience unfair treatment. The most successful people are the ones who are competent (but not necessarily all that great) at their job, but are greatly-liked by most of their co-workers.

Doesn't matter how good / how much of a hard worker a person is. If he/she isn't well-liked, they'll quite easily be given MORE work and/or thrown under the bus. TRUTH.



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03 Oct 2021, 7:41 am

I am liked there. But I just think they don't like cleaning - which is understandable but isn't really an option when you're getting paid to do a job.


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03 Oct 2021, 7:51 am

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I am liked there. But I just think they don't like cleaning - which is understandable but isn't really an option when you're getting paid to do a job.

No disrespect, but if your co-workers tell you how great you are...then go out to lunch with each other and don't even think of inviting you, then you're not as well-liked as you'd like to believe.



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03 Oct 2021, 7:57 am

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Joe90 wrote:
I am liked there. But I just think they don't like cleaning - which is understandable but isn't really an option when you're getting paid to do a job.

No disrespect, but if your co-workers tell you how great you are...then go out to lunch with each other and don't even think of inviting you, then you're not as well-liked as you'd like to believe.


I think I will just commit suicide then. :cry:


They don't go out to lunch together though.


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03 Oct 2021, 8:01 am

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