Joe90 wrote:
Also some things over there are the opposite to they are here. Like people think that quiet, expressionless people are dangerous, but in the UK it's the opposite - people trust the quiet people and they think that the more loud, charming, emotionally expressive people are more dangerous. So over here walking around in public keeping yourself to yourself and looking emotionless is actually the done thing, and if you're on your own and express a hint of emotion people stare at you.
Here in the U.S.A., the attitude that "quiet, expressionless people are dangerous" is not found
everywhere. Here in NYC, it is (as far as I can tell, at least) accepted that people can legitimately have a variety of personalities.
There also are (or at least were) at least
some places where being quiet and relatively un-expressive is the norm. This seemed to be the case in Iowa when my parents used to take me there occasionally when I was young.
I'm not sure what the attitudes about emotional expressiveness (or lack thereof) are in most parts of the country.
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