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Sarahsmith
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18 Feb 2022, 7:47 pm

I must not belong in this world. I keep wishing I could run to someone sensitive and intelligent that gave a s**t and overlooked how stupid and flawed I am. Like the perfect clairvoyant. Like some kind of angel. I’ve been socializing but it’s weird with this female friend I have. She started going through menopause and thus turned evil and also seems to be judging me for being a loser lately. I also have a hard time trusting her. I think she’s really cool but my empathy is so much not there that I’m not a very good judge of character. And lately I’ve been talking to my old guy neighbour downstairs. So that would be weird if he was the only one I’m talking to. it still feels like not enough. I’d run to love but my body is not in good condition. Guys aren’t into that so I don’t see the point. I don’t really want to be with a guy. I guess if I had done it all differently then I would have no problem running to love. But you know I could totally go for the type of brotherly love thing. You know a guy that’s more like a brother. Just someone nice and understanding guy that isn’t a prick. Just lonely tonight and don’t know who else to talk to.



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18 Feb 2022, 8:04 pm

I believe guys could be friends with women....and vice versa.

Many guys don't want to make love with every woman they see. They are beyond that. They see women as people.

I hope you find such a guy.....who doesn't just want to get into your pants.

I'm sorry you're lonely tonight.



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22 Feb 2022, 3:05 am

Sarahsmith wrote:
I’ve been socializing but it’s weird with this female friend I have. She started going through menopause and thus turned evil

Most women don't "turn evil" due to menopause. In what specific ways has she "turned evil"?

Sarahsmith wrote:
and also seems to be judging me for being a loser lately. I also have a hard time trusting her.

If she's being judgmental toward you, that might be a good reason not to trust her.


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22 Feb 2022, 3:21 am

Sarahsmith wrote:
I must not belong in this world. I keep wishing I could run to someone sensitive and intelligent that gave a s**t and overlooked how stupid and flawed I am. Like the perfect clairvoyant. Like some kind of angel. I’ve been socializing but it’s weird with this female friend I have. She started going through menopause and thus turned evil and also seems to be judging me for being a loser lately. I also have a hard time trusting her. I think she’s really cool but my empathy is so much not there that I’m not a very good judge of character. And lately I’ve been talking to my old guy neighbour downstairs. So that would be weird if he was the only one I’m talking to. it still feels like not enough. I’d run to love but my body is not in good condition. Guys aren’t into that so I don’t see the point. I don’t really want to be with a guy. I guess if I had done it all differently then I would have no problem running to love. But you know I could totally go for the type of brotherly love thing. You know a guy that’s more like a brother. Just someone nice and understanding guy that isn’t a prick. Just lonely tonight and don’t know who else to talk to.

that seems to be a lot on your plate. first of all, just keep talking to us. you are being heard. and never run to love, it seldom turns out well that way.



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23 Feb 2022, 7:16 am

I am sorry to hear about your friendship going south with your female friend. That’s always hard. That said, it probably does not have anything to do with you. She’s experiencing menopause right now and she’s probably not feeling good. In fact, she’s probably being mean to everyone.