Is it common for aspies to smile when nervous?

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I have NVLD and at times have been have had to fight the urge to smile at irate people, never knew why though...

Used to smile all the time when i was a child then got beaten regularily for it . And for not looking at parents
when they spoke or scolded . It took over 15 yrs to partially get over that . i know a few aspies also who goto a blank expression often, when normally they would smile. Think it has to do with level on the spectrum occassionally .
My non verbal Sister did not do smiles almost ever , She would make a obviously forced smile Although oddly enough parents encouraged her to smile , but she never did it very well . Weird how parents can be. But little sister never picked up smiling , it wasn't too weird , i got her to genuinely smile once . But my mom immediately seperated us . Never figured that out , It was my only recollection of her smiling . .Kinda of a extreme raising as a child .
Weird enough . I figured out it was my particular family, from outside observations when very young . Actually had to learn to smile again in my twenties . Awe maybe my face was broken ? lolzz

I'm not a smiler at all.
Smiling physically hurts.
It is ALWAYS fake if I smile.

When I'm happy I bounce around and make faces but I wouldn't call them smiles.
If I'm nervous I look stone-faced, like always.

Nervous smiles are a thing and we have more than typical reasons and opportunities to be nervous.

Smiling can be an anxiety response for some, as previously noted.

From my experience, it's more common in NTs. I have seen several NTs smiling or laughing in awkward situations, it's a way to reduce the tension in the environment, and that's something that I have done consciously in cases when I feel very nervous —usually, when I'm nervous, I feel so scared that I can't move. NTs smile by empathy and that makes me feel a little bit more comfortable, like an indicator that I haven't made any mistakes.

I’d say it is pretty common for us to smile, it is a way to relieve stress after all.

I find myself nervous pretty much whenever I’m talking and I’ve noticed I tend to laugh a lot when I talk. Not a deep or long one, just a quick one to show I’m being casual. (It’s making up for my lack of clearly displaying how I feel. It reminds me of how a dog shows its stomach as a sign of submission.) I have noticed though that when I’m very into a topic my speech becomes very clear and I don’t laugh.