What is The Best Apology / Forgiveness You've Received.

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27 Mar 2023, 6:25 pm

I was just forgiven by Pepe cause I told him to shut up. :oops:


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27 Mar 2023, 6:41 pm

/\That’s going to happen often. :lol:


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27 Mar 2023, 6:51 pm

Rexi wrote:
I was just forgiven by Pepe cause I told him to shut up. :oops:


Was that your first domestos?( domestos is slang for domestic argument). If so , how you both handled it will shape your future.


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28 Mar 2023, 4:17 pm

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Rexi wrote:
I was just forgiven by Pepe cause I told him to shut up. :oops:


Was that your first domestos?( domestos is slang for domestic argument). If so , how you both handled it will shape your future.

We've been dating for a while. First polygamous, and now exclusive.

Our first argument was prolly when we were poly. Was probably about pepe preferring email, and not me. We've known each other for 2 years, if not more. So that's when the first argument was. We both tried to make adjustments, especially pepe. He valued our bond especially when he knew I was serious unlike generally other people.

It was handled perfectly from both sides. At this point no argument matters to either of us lol.


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28 Mar 2023, 5:08 pm

Once I told a woman I loved her and she said sorry to me among a load of nice things. I was too caught up in the nice things to really think much about the apology, but it was weird, because from my perspective she hadn't done anything wrong.

When I started secondary school, I was placed in a class with six other boys from my primary school who I got on well with. Unfortunately, they stopped getting on well with me. I was ostracised, which escalated via name calling to physical bullying. Eventually my parents saw the bruises and phoned the school and it stopped. Relationships repaired over time. These days one of them is one of my closest friends. He got beaten up in 2020 which induced a period of mania and psychosis, and he apologised to me for everything that happened in 2007. It was the first time any of them had actually apologised.

Forgiveness... not sure. Can't really remember.



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28 Mar 2023, 5:49 pm

Rexi wrote:
Recidivist wrote:
Rexi wrote:
I was just forgiven by Pepe cause I told him to shut up. :oops:


Was that your first domestos?( domestos is slang for domestic argument). If so , how you both handled it will shape your future.

We've been dating for a while. First polygamous, and now exclusive.

Our first argument was prolly when we were poly. Was probably about pepe preferring email, and not me. We've known each other for 2 years, if not more. So that's when the first argument was. We both tried to make adjustments, especially pepe. He valued our bond especially when he knew I was serious unlike generally other people.

It was handled perfectly from both sides. At this point no argument matters to either of us lol.


Sounds good dude.


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28 Mar 2023, 6:08 pm

The_Walrus wrote:
Once I told a woman I loved her and she said sorry to me among a load of nice things. I was too caught up in the nice things to really think much about the apology, but it was weird, because from my perspective she hadn't done anything wrong.


Dunno why she said that, unless you declared love, and she let you down nicely with a sorry and compliments (i.e. sorry the love is not reciprocated). But yeah, apologising for not loving someone is a bit weird and probably (I'm guessing) is something women have to do sometimes out of fear of 'something'. My GF disagrees and said it's probably that you were clearly a sweet guy but not for her. I told her I am talking about Walrus here :P

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When I started secondary school, I was placed in a class with six other boys from my primary school who I got on well with. Unfortunately, they stopped getting on well with me. I was ostracised, which escalated via name calling to physical bullying. Eventually my parents saw the bruises and phoned the school and it stopped. Relationships repaired over time. These days one of them is one of my closest friends. He got beaten up in 2020 which induced a period of mania and psychosis, and he apologised to me for everything that happened in 2007. It was the first time any of them had actually apologised.

Forgiveness... not sure. Can't really remember.


Kids can be real bastards , secondary school can be a battlefield. Shame it took a beating and a trip to the darkside to make him apologise, the apology was probably always in him, but he needed to mature fully and evaluate his life first. Take it from me you evaluate a lot after psychosis. :jester:


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28 Mar 2023, 6:09 pm

I was going to ask that too, Walrus. Why did she say sorry?


Here's one written by a bear.

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