Abandoned twice
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Dad abandons son with autism at Longmont hospital and human service workers refuse to take custody
A hospital employee emailed state Rep. Judy Amabile of Boulder last week asking her to intervene.
The employee said Boulder County Human Service workers initially agreed to take custody of the boy and then refused saying he was safe in an emergency department.
"Boulder County DHS has not spent more than five minutes with this child since his arrival three weeks ago," the hospital employee wrote.
Amabile says state and county human service workers told her they are working on finding placement for the boy but she says it is unconscionable that he has been forced to live in a hospital for nearly a month, "I don't know whether the dad may or may not have reached out and ask for help but may not been able to get any help. Like we just... we don't know, but what we do know is that you can't just leave a 13-year-old in an ER for weeks on end with no end in sight."
She says she also reached out to both Boulder County and State Human Service workers but they would only say that they were working on it.
Both UCHealth and the Colorado Department of Human Services said they couldn't talk about the case due to health privacy protections.
"Patients are always our top priority. However, hospitals are not equipped to provide long-term services for people who do not need acute medical care”.
Madlynn Ruble with the Colorado Department of Human Services said while the state is working to increase residential treatment, it lacks options for children with highly complex medical and behavioral health needs, due in part to a lack of providers.
Amabile says she hears from dozens of parents every year who are desperate for help for their kids. She says not only is the behavioral health care system not adequate, neither is the child welfare system.
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DSM 5: Autism Spectrum Disorder, DSM IV: Aspergers Moderate Severity
“My autism is not a superpower. It also isn’t some kind of god-forsaken, endless fountain of suffering inflicted on my family. It’s just part of who I am as a person”. - Sara Luterman
I wish my dad would abandon me. Every day I hope this happens.
I'm not gonna judge the dad in the story one way or the other. Too much information seems to be omitted. There are different types of autism. Most autists are probably fine, but I've seen some autists where all they do is scream and have violent behavior. I could take it maybe once a month but if they did that every day I'd abandon them too. If they were just a regular old civilized autist like sheldon cooper or the kid from breaking bad they shouldn't have been abandoned imo.
utterly heartbreaking. No answers. hope everybody figures out the best thing to do to move forward and give everybody involved a better life.
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