Tim_Tex wrote:
On top of all this, Texas is an at-will state, so I have that against me as well.
PA is an at-will state also, but that doesn't seem to mean employers aren't still very cautious and concerned about being sued. I have dealt with situations where I've had to collect and compile tons of documentation over an extended period of time, "coach" people through corrective action plans and give them multiple opportunities for formal discussion and improvement before HR would even entertain the idea of terminating an employee. Perhaps the company I work for is outside the norm, but I think many others (especially larger organizations) are similarly cautious.
Re: thread title, yeah, sadly fit and soft skills seem to trump other qualifications often. I think some fields might be a little better than others and remote work evens the playing field slightly, but generally that is the case.