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Summer_Twilight
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18 Oct 2023, 2:21 pm

Hi:

I have a former supervisor and colleague who constantly bullies and criticizes me just about every time I turn around.

-If I talk when others are talking, he's yelled at me in a meeting "Hey, that person is talking."
-I say something that sounds funny to him, and he makes fun of me.
- I say or do something that bothers him, he gets nasty.
-He was bossy to me about ordering "His" batteries

Just about every time he criticizes me, I end up in tears.



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19 Oct 2023, 11:43 am

Have you tried bringing it up? Not all bullying is intentional. Not everyone picks up on things so fast. A good example is ordering "his" batteries, which could be a friendly way of asking for batteries he specifically ordered (vs what Janey asked for earlier.)



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19 Oct 2023, 12:31 pm

Perhaps you could mention your concerns of bullying to your bosses boss.

That would be, whoever manages the supervisor?

You should never simply put up with bullying in the workplace.