I think a lot of men have a kneejerk reaction to dismiss any media they understand as intended for women or girls.
That said (like you say), part of that reaction is natural when people aren't part of a work of art's target demographic.
For example, I don't generally listen to or enjoy pop music. One could try to frame this as being due to misogyny or being a hipster, although ultimately it boils down to a lot of pop music triggers misophonia for me.
I absolutely have a prejudice against pop music, based on understanding exposure will almost certainly be deeply unpleasant. Is it fair for me to dismiss it without even bothering to give a listen through? Maybe, maybe not. I'm not obliged to subject myself to discomfort before conceding that I will never be able to enjoy a certain work.
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