My wife went to a high risk pregnancy doctor for our youngest after loosing two children in utero. She was given a classification as AMA (advanced maternal age) and given a 33% chance of carrying to term. I then white-knuckled through the rest of the 9 months. Each month they would revise the percentage. I think statistically 1 in 3 pregnancies are carried to term on average even with no other factors. My wife was 45/46 when she was classified AMA. A mother with Downs will need extra support with pregnancy and as a young mother of a young baby I would think. Really, as father of three, we all need support when the baby is small, no-one really does it alone.
If you are concerned about someone you know who is pregnant and has Downs I would start calling hospitals and churches in your area and ask what kind of supports are available, and think carefully about what you yourself can realistically do to support.
Every baby is precious, every baby is a gift. PM me if you want to talk.
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ADHD-I(diagnosed) ASD-HF(diagnosed)
RDOS scores - Aspie score 131/200 - neurotypical score 69/200 - very likely Aspie