How to get people to accommodate auditory issues?

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So, I hear a lot “you don’t look autistic”, and even when people believe I am autistic, they tend to ignore my needs for accommodations. I am a young researcher and I work at university, and I have auditory processing issues which make it impossible for me to follow oral academic discussions. I can follow normal conversation though (except for word spellings), so I guess that’s why people don’t take me seriously. I have asked multiple times to people to write formulas at the blackboard while they talk, but they just don’t do it: they keep talking and talking and for me it is as if they spoke a different language.
The best solution I came up with, is to record our conversations, but it is not optimal as listening them afterwards and rewinding them is very time consuming.
Also, I don’t manage to just show how lost I am during the discussion, as I feel that people wouldn’t believe/understand it, hence they would just think I am dumb. So people just believe I am following. I wouldn’t even know how to show my distress, and anyway they wouldn’t take me seriously, or they would just get annoyed (and there is a power imbalance between senior professors and a young researcher).
Any idea on how to solve this issue?

Can you use speech-to-text software so their words are translated into written form?

Another suggestion is to be tested for audiovisual processing delay and get an accommodation.
That's a lot more labour-intensive to do though.

That's so invalidating!! ! That's so rude that they are unwilling to make small changes to their teaching styles. I'm sorry you have to go through that!

Along with what Isabella said about seeking testing/software to help, I think you unfortunately may need to continuously advocating for your needs (which is tiring and sad that you have to keep asking for reasonable accommodation!). Good luck ʕ´•ᴥ•`ʔ. I hope they start listening to you soon!