I’ve hit another dry spell

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CubsBullsBears
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26 Jun 2024, 9:18 am

By that I don’t even mean being in a relationship. I mean having someone I know who seemingly could be a potential partner. That was actually the case just 2 months ago. There was a cute girl in a meetup group I had joined and I kid you not, she actually met up with me for dinner one night. However, while I’ve since made a few attempts to get her to get together with me again, she’s only made excuses not to and given no effort to get things to go further. I’m pretty sure this is a bona fide rejection. The worst of the worst scenarios. I’d rather her pull the “I have a boyfriend” card. At least then I would know that it’s not about me. :(

Now, I have no one I have any hope for a relationship with. I’ve swiped right on a lot of profiles on Facebook dating but that’s led nowhere as well(I can’t afford to pay for dating apps that cost $ right now, so don’t suggest that).


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26 Jun 2024, 11:55 am

Here's a couple of ideas on where to possibly meet a partner but they may or may not even be options for you.
Offline groups in your area like common interests, support groups, church, charities, community service & activism.
Online groups & communities for common interests, online support group type things, & friendship oriented things.
Search for free dating sites or forums & such related to dating.


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