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Kitty4670
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20 Jul 2024, 8:46 pm

I know my sister been so overwhelmed, having alot of stress, having alot of problems, having trouble walking & feeling pressure about finding a place to live, she need to move out of her house soon, now she know how I felt when I was packing to move out of my last apartment. But she still lucky, she were living in a house, she can eat whatever she want, eat when she want, noone ordering her to do something, have to take a shower every other day with a very bad back, worrying that I would fall in the shower & having a towel on the bathroom floor as a bath rug, I could fall down, I'm NOT SAFE living there. She has a friend that can help her, she can go anywhere she want, go to bed when she wants, she have a dog, now she have my cat. On Thursday, we texted, she was acting nice, the next day, she was mean. I REALLY CANNOT handle her mood swings cuz of her Bipolar, she also has ADD, she said she has a little Autism too. She can easily upset me? I don't know why. She acting like she more important. I wish I have someone else helping me move, cuz I'm not happy with her now. she making everything about her.



JamesW
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22 Jul 2024, 6:33 am

It sounds like she has a lot of stress going on too. Be patient with her if you can. The important thing is it sounds like you're out of the group home, or will be very soon.

I know it's the Haven and we're not supposed to give advice in here, so tell me to shut up :D