whitetiger wrote:
I think Austen showed a real interest in NT relationships and on an intricate level that someone with AS would not be capable of.
As a woman with AS I would like to mention my own keen interest in NT relationships.. they truly fascinate me! I am also very able to observe them with all their intricacies and repeat and remember what I have observed. It is true that generalising these experiences rationally takes practice but it is definitely possible. The key to success with AS is determination alongside a natural passion for learning so if Jane Austen had these then there is every possibility that she had Aspergers and was able to write about those who did not.
But also, whoever said that the relationships she writes about are NT relationships? At the risk of sounding geeky, there are many characters in her novels who to me did not appear to act in a neurotypical way in terms of their relationships.
It is funny, because whether or not Jane Austen had AS, I have often felt able to identify with her characters in an Aspergian way. I have also wondered in the past if her life choice of not marrying was somehow rooted in underlying AS as well as her passion for writing. I am not an expert, but these are things I observed and thought about before reading any theories or conversations on the matter on the internet.
And a little theory of my own... perhaps writing about relationships and creating imaginary worlds and situations (usually with a happy ending), was Jane Austen's way of making sense and gaining some control in a neurotypical world. It is the way in which I coped as a child.