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Sillylilgoober
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03 Sep 2024, 10:13 am

so like sometimes I wanna be a guy but that ends within a few month but now I want to be a girl (i'm AFAB) and I'm starting to wonder if I am trans


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03 Sep 2024, 5:41 pm

Maybe you're fluid?


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03 Sep 2024, 9:33 pm

It's better to see guy and girl as options rather than absolutes. Try to try out and find what specific things associated with being a guy or girl you really want rather than attempting to cram your identity into one bucket.

Do take steps to think about what kind of body you desire though. Not choosing an option is choosing the hormones the lottery of birth has given you.



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05 Sep 2024, 6:02 am

the body I desire kinda changes a lot though but I will try :)


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09 Sep 2024, 8:35 am

Sillylilgoober wrote:
so like sometimes I wanna be a guy but that ends within a few month but now I want to be a girl (i'm AFAB) and I'm starting to wonder if I am trans

Don't you mean your "gender-fluid"?



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09 Sep 2024, 11:44 am

oh :o thank you


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10 Sep 2024, 2:35 pm

Sillylilgoober wrote:
so like sometimes I wanna be a guy but that ends within a few month but now I want to be a girl (i'm AFAB) and I'm starting to wonder if I am trans


I get the exact same feeling. Have a long blonde wig and women's clothes. Considering a silicone female bodysuit as well.



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13 Oct 2024, 7:09 pm

When I was little, I very much wanted to be a boy.

Later in childhood, I realized that I didn't really identify with either boys or girls.

Eventually I concluded that I'm a gender-nonconforming woman.

If the term "nonbinary" were commonplace when I was younger, I would likely identify as nonbinary.


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