It’s crazy

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It’s crazy to me. Crazy how no woman ever has had any romantic interest in me. Not even a tiny bit. Not even enough to go on a date with me. The hints that some of you have received, I never got. The matches you got on dating apps, I never got. The initiative that some of you received from the woman to date them, I never got. Does anyone realize how insane that sounds? I live with it everyday. On somedays, I’m ok accepting it but other days like today, it sucks so much.

What makes it crazy? Do you have any desirable traits, or conversely, do you have any traits that might consistently drive others away?

I would like to think so but I guess all of my traits make me undateable. It’s just crazy to me. Especially with the cope of “there’s somebody out there for everybody”. There isn’t and some people are meant to be single. Like me.

Edit: Like have you lived your life in which no one was ever attracted to you in a romantic sense? I’m 30 and it’s never happened. Those feelings and emotions are very hard to accept.

I guarantee there are women on the online dating apps that feel the exact same way. Some women have given up altogether on dating. I do not think that this happens just to males or just to you. It is a universal human condition that happens to a lot of people. Especially at my age I encounter a lot of people that have simply given up or no longer think about such matters or consider them important in any way. Some are married, and many marriages are just arrangements where people cohabit and may or may not even be friends anymore.