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BillyTree
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13 Nov 2024, 10:08 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
These threads all always rather generalizing. Different women like different things.


Generalizing, yes, I think that's what he's asking about - if women in general are more attracted to ruthless guys. That individual women's taste differ goes without saying. My advice to any guy is "be yourself and stop wasting time wondering about what women prefer". If you are nice guy, why would you like to engage with women wanting a ruthless brute?


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13 Nov 2024, 10:13 am

I was especially responding to a specific comment which is why I quoted it.

Some women are attracted to ruthless guys, but I certainly don’t think it’s the majority. We may be more likely to notice/comment on those who go for someone ruthless than a person who goes with a nice guy because it’s more striking. People often like to have conversations that contain phrases like: “I can’t believe she went for him!”



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TwilightPrincess wrote:
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Replace ruthless with confident and the answer would be yes. Don’t be a “nice” guy.

Many women are attracted to nice guys. These threads all always rather generalizing. Different women like different things.


I think we have our definitions of a “nice” guy mixed up. When I say “nice” guy, I’m talking about those who think they are entitled to things from someone (like dates, relationships, etc) because they are being nice to them.