nick007 wrote:
I just thought how lots of work from home jobs NTs have mentioned to me were customer service related. They were talking to lots of various people on the phone & through chat programs ie they were customer service reps for airline companys or they did tech support & customer calls would be transferred to them. Those types of jobs do not seem very Aspie friendly to me considering us Aspies tend to have communication issues & feel anxious talking on the phone with strangers. Those suggestions might be due to NTs not being able to fully grasp what Aspergers is like.
I was terrible on the phone when I was a teenager and scared to death of talking to strangers. I felt extremely shy. My NT friend was uninhibited and would prank call random strangers from the phone book. He would insult men, and seduce women with fabulous lies about his affluence and power (all lies). His success surprised me. A lot of women responded favorably to being called up by a random stranger on the phone. In fact, some agreed to meet him, this is one way that he met women. I did not understand it, it did not seem to make any sense to me.
Later in life, I grew more confident over the phone. Not to the level of my prank caller friend--I will never be like that. However, I worked in phone support over 10 years and do not have any problem with it today. In fact, I like talking on the phone now. So my point is, with experience, phone talk is doable for aspies. You learn how to steer conversations, get what you want, give the other side what they want, all without offending anybody.
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