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20 Nov 2024, 6:10 pm

I feel like men can still get women if they have confidence but a lot of men don’t.[/quote]

and for all time, nobody gives a f**k about a womans confidence, thats not how men are attracted to women[/quote]

And what do you propose be done about this?[/quote]

Was this a reply to my comment, or wanttohavealifes comment?



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20 Nov 2024, 6:12 pm

duck12 wrote:
Was this a reply to my comment, or wanttohavealifes comment?


Wanttohavealife.

I wouldn't have quoted him if I was directing the question towards you because that would create needless ambiguity.


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20 Nov 2024, 6:13 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
duck12 wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
yeah the FA community will always be male-dominated



I feel like men can still get women if they have confidence but a lot of men don’t.


and for all time, nobody gives a f**k about a womans confidence, thats not how men are attracted to women


Speak for yourself. I find confidence a very attractive trait in a woman.


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20 Nov 2024, 6:27 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
Wanttohavealife.

I wouldn't have quoted him if I was directing the question towards you because that would create needless ambiguity.


It sounds like needful ambiguity would be a good thing for OP. 8)



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21 Nov 2024, 1:38 am

well sorry, but a relationship without intimacy just damaged me mentally/emotionally



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21 Nov 2024, 3:43 am

WantToHaveALife wrote:
well sorry, but a relationship without intimacy just damaged me mentally/emotionally


I am ok with relationships without intimacy (*sex). Sex would be like a bonus. Is "cherry on top" a good analogy? This may be the only time in all of my Wrong Planet history I can use the cherry smiley. :cherry:

What I really prefer is just someone to talk on the phone with and occasionally get together for dates.

This living together business, I am skeptical of that. I have observed many couples in my day. It gets to be like a negotiated truce. Everything's a compromise. Also, people get tired of one another. Sad but true.


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21 Nov 2024, 11:29 am

^not just in romantic relationships but also in familial relationships I have known for this to be true!! !

I have gotten tired and bored of my brother

It makes me wonder WHY I desire to get married because I know the cycle will repeat...



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09 Dec 2024, 9:04 pm

Gentleman Argentum wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
well sorry, but a relationship without intimacy just damaged me mentally/emotionally


I am ok with relationships without intimacy (*sex). Sex would be like a bonus. Is "cherry on top" a good analogy? This may be the only time in all of my Wrong Planet history I can use the cherry smiley. :cherry:

What I really prefer is just someone to talk on the phone with and occasionally get together for dates.

This living together business, I am skeptical of that. I have observed many couples in my day. It gets to be like a negotiated truce. Everything's a compromise. Also, people get tired of one another. Sad but true.


a relationship without sex just sounds like friendship to me



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09 Dec 2024, 9:12 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
a relationship without sex just sounds like friendship to me


Sounds like a lot of people's marriages.


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