would you let your autistic son die a virgin?

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14 Nov 2024, 11:27 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
If he's not interested in sex, I would.

If that's in response to me, fair enough. In that case, there isn't really any issue.



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15 Nov 2024, 9:55 pm

Im not saying that man with job responsibility agrees with everyone, but seems to effectively work for most.
So many autistic males had got married as had careers, but meltdowns and family issues seemed to be noticeable issues. I think dating NT complicated relationship, so asd couples can decide if having kids, who's paying.

So best option is to work, live independently and try meet someone via methods work for you.
Good luck



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Today, 6:39 am

Would you rather have an arranged marriage? I think that's how my ancestors reproduced. :)

It's not too bad for men. Just focus on working and making money and women would follow. Men are marrying beautiful girls in their 40s and 50s nowadays. We have a cousin who just married at 46. He's got a cushy job, his own house and plenty of savings. Another cousin who's a medical doctor who married a rich man in his 50s. They have two beautiful kids now and live in a lavish mansion.

Of course I personally don't believe in romantic love. Girls are practical and want to be with successful men.The most warm, charming man I know is always unemployed and he didn't have much luck in love.


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y-pod wrote:
Would you rather have an arranged marriage? I think that's how my ancestors reproduced. :)

It's not too bad for men. Just focus on working and making money and women would follow. Men are marrying beautiful girls in their 40s and 50s nowadays. We have a cousin who just married at 46. He's got a cushy job, his own house and plenty of savings. Another cousin who's a medical doctor who married a rich man in his 50s. They have two beautiful kids now and live in a lavish mansion.

Of course I personally don't believe in romantic love. Girls are practical and want to be with successful men.The most warm, charming man I know is always unemployed and he didn't have much luck in love.


Wow, I didn't expect that to come from a woman.