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tcorrielus
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03 Dec 2024, 7:11 pm

Has anyone ever told you that you talk or sound like a robot? Some people (including a boss at my old pharmacy job) have told me that I talk like a robot. At first, I would get irritated when people told me this. Later on, I would record myself talking and would feel awkward listening to my own voice.

What strategies have you all done to make your voice less robotic? I want to improve my voice so that I can better attract people in the social and professional world.



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03 Dec 2024, 7:54 pm

I haven't been told exactly that, but the first time I heard a tape recording of my speaking voice, I realised that I mumbled. I suppose mumbling and robotic are pretty much interchangeable terms for a lot of people. I had no idea I mumbled before I heard the tape, and I didn't like it. But after a few years I'd become better at the singing I'd started to try doing, which has a lot to do with intonation and word-clarity, and then a couple of people remarked that they'd never have thought from my speaking voice that I could sing so well. So here and there I started to try improving my speaking voice.

Just like I did to learn to sing better, I used sound recordings to get useful feedback about what I sound like to other people. Progress was quite slow for a while. I think it was something about poor confidence. And it was harder when I chose my own words and made it up without a script. I started to get somewhere when I switched to reading from books. I'd always liked reading aloud so that helped. A lot of it was about remembering to put intonation into what I said, and to use my mouth to better shape the syllables properly. Listening to professional book readers also helped. I admired the way some of them could command attention by the expert use of their voices, and I'm a born copycat. After many years, I happened to mention to a barber that I did a bit of live singing, and he said "I thought you might be a singer, because I noticed that when you speak, you project your voice better than most of my customers do." So I was quite pleased. I'm still prone to slip back into mumbling when I'm not feeling confident or when I forget to apply the corrections.

I think it's very useful socially to have a good speaking voice. People tend to quickly get bored with monotone, and personally I find it hard work listening to folks who mumble, so I guess I understand why it comes over as boring. So I think it's worth working on. I suppose a good way to learn would be to get on an acting course, though if that's too expensive or daunting, it's possible to make improvements without a engaging a teacher.



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03 Dec 2024, 8:29 pm

I was fortunate to have professional speech therapy in my 30s.



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03 Dec 2024, 9:14 pm

Does my voice sound robotic/monotone or do I have some sort of accent?

https://voca.ro/1lyUeYiZ8ipT


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03 Dec 2024, 11:28 pm

Everyone says I speak in a monotone, to the point where people often don't realize I'm joking because my voice always sounds the same. But then I've also been complimented on my "deadpan humor", so who knows.

I think I only sound that way when I'm tired. It takes energy for me to be expressive, but when I have the energy I can do it.


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04 Dec 2024, 1:16 am

Nope.



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04 Dec 2024, 8:40 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
Does my voice sound robotic/monotone or do I have some sort of accent?

https://voca.ro/1lyUeYiZ8ipT


I would say it's fairly normal, i.e. no more robotic than most people when they record their voices, but not as intoned as an actor or somebody who's used to recording spoken word.



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04 Dec 2024, 8:42 am

this is called "flat affectt", I was told during my assessment at age 68 that I had this voice quality (it is also recognized by lack of facial expression) I always thought my voice and face were very expressive... I had no idea!


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04 Dec 2024, 9:24 am

In my teens I worked on enunciating clearly and in my late 30s I worked on modulating sentences.