I was bullied in every single job I ever had, I did not get diagnosis until after I was retired. I had no idea how I made them angry and resentful, but I managed to alienate co workers every time, even though I could always do the job at hand. Sabotage and "setting me up" were common and I never understood "why" until after I got diagnosis.(5 years after I retired, when I was 68) I am sure your experience is common. Others will definitely identify.