Insulting how I look or not?

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Jamesy
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27 Jan 2025, 3:46 pm

I was telling some guys I know recently that me aged 24 one night at a club these 2 ladies came up to me and started touching my face with one of them saying "Awww my friend really fancies you" "Do you want to dance with her"

My friends then responded by saying "Well how drunk where they?"

Where they trying insult my looks by suggesting the only reason they approached is because they were intoxicated?



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27 Jan 2025, 4:21 pm

I'm thinking it might be banter


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27 Jan 2025, 8:07 pm

Justa bitta banta.


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28 Jan 2025, 4:58 am

For someone who goes to bars so often James, you have an extremely difficult time understanding bar behavior. Perhaps you'd have an easier time in a different type of scene.


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28 Jan 2025, 11:09 am

nick007 wrote:
For someone who goes to bars so often James, you have an extremely difficult time understanding bar behavior. Perhaps you'd have an easier time in a different type of scene.



I go to my local family pub mostly these days



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28 Jan 2025, 11:31 am

funeralxempire wrote:
Justa bitta banta.


Nice one
I like your style


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28 Jan 2025, 11:32 am

Jamesy wrote:
nick007 wrote:
For someone who goes to bars so often James, you have an extremely difficult time understanding bar behavior. Perhaps you'd have an easier time in a different type of scene.



I go to my local family pub mostly these days


With your family


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28 Jan 2025, 11:37 am

I'd hate it if a random woman came up to me and started touching my face :lol:

I think she'd feel my foot right in her face

(I'm not advocating violence btw)


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28 Jan 2025, 11:41 am

babybird wrote:
I'm thinking it might be banter

Yes. Your friends thought you were bragging and responded to that. That's just how it works.


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Yesterday, 9:54 am

It looks like banter to me.


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Yesterday, 10:19 am

Some people don't get banter though

And I don't think that's just an autistic thing either


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