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BuggoftheSea
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29 Jan 2025, 9:48 pm

I speak quietly and a lot of people can’t hear me. Even when I try to speak loudly, I’m lucky if I can get up to conversation volume.

I also have a lot of sound sensitivity and I was wondering if they could be related. Like I wanted to avoid hearing my own voice. Does that make sense to anyone?



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29 Jan 2025, 10:36 pm

If my sense of hearing is more or less screwed depending on which phase of fluctuations I'm dealing with, yes.

Sometimes it's too quiet because it's loud, sometimes it's too loud because everything is too loud and already dealing with sheer quantity of irrelevant crap.


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30 Jan 2025, 12:24 am

BuggoftheSea wrote:
I speak quietly and a lot of people can’t hear me. Even when I try to speak loudly, I’m lucky if I can get up to conversation volume.

I also have a lot of sound sensitivity and I was wondering if they could be related. Like I wanted to avoid hearing my own voice. Does that make sense to anyone?


My choir instructors always tried to get me to sing louder. I can sing louder when I’m alone but softer when I’m in a group.

Like you, I am sensitive to sound.

I’m highly sensitive to everything.



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30 Jan 2025, 12:25 am

People say I'm too shouty sometimes


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30 Jan 2025, 10:02 am

I am sound sensitive and also speak quietly, any time I speak loudly it's without meaning to really or knowing and others have said something as it can normally be in a place i am not supposed to be loud. I can't really yell stuff if needed much either so I wonder if is linked? or if people ask me to and I will not do so.



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30 Jan 2025, 11:52 am

Garthilium wrote:
I can't really yell stuff if needed much either so I wonder if is linked? or if people ask me to and I will not do so.


Same, if they want me to yell so they can hear over something, I try but I can't.



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31 Jan 2025, 8:51 pm

Sometimes I'm too loud. There's a new guy at work who's really quiet. He has a nice voice though.



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01 Feb 2025, 12:01 am

Just speak softly most my life but learned to get louder, when I am hurt physically .... Am gettin hoarse if i try to raise my voice ,for more than a few moments . :oops:


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01 Feb 2025, 12:04 am

Jakki wrote:
Just speak softly most my life but learned to get louder, when I am hurt physically .... Am gettin hoarse if i try to raise my voice ,for more than a few moments . :oops:


When you raise your voice, do you project from your diaphragm or just put more stress on your voice box?


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03 Feb 2025, 6:37 am

I never think of myself as being quiet but several people have commented that I am/was as a child. I get told to speak up more frequently than I get told to tone it down. (but that sometimes happens too)


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03 Feb 2025, 9:26 am

I am a quiet speaker. I have to remind myself to speak up more when I’m talking to someone.



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I generally talk quietly. I seem to have this feeling that it would be a better world if everybody did, and if noise pollution was cleaned up more vigorously. To my mind there's something wrong when everybody's raising their voices to be heard against everybody else.

But I'm well able to sing loud if the song and the occasion warrants it. I've been that way since I started recovering from my voice breaking, and I realised that if I pushed against my upper pitch limit and delivered a high phrase with enough power, then instead of my voice breaking into an uncontrolled falsetto it sounded quite good. It was years before I got into doing lower-pitch, quieter vocals.

I also talk a bit louder when I'm reading aloud. Mumbling a book doesn't work.



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Today, 12:35 pm

Yes I almost whisper sometimes and I have a soft tone most of the time but if I'm with people I don't know then I sometimes struggle to talk at all


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I have periods or situations when I speak too quietly and I hear that I behave like a shy girl (I’m 36, woman) but other times I hear that I speak too loud and too much. I’m not sure what it depends on. Maybe on that how comfortable I feel or maybe also on the topic I talk about. If it’s my interest then it’s too much and too loud but in an office I have some business in, it’s quiet and shy.


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Today, 3:56 pm

ToughDiamond wrote:
I generally talk quietly. I seem to have this feeling that it would be a better world if everybody did, and if noise pollution was cleaned up more vigorously. To my mind there's something wrong when everybody's raising their voices to be heard against everybody else.


Whenever someone asks me to speak up, this exact thought runs through my head. I talk quietly too, and perhaps I could learn to speak louder, but at the same time, when I'm in environments that are not so noisy, with people who are not so noisy, I have no difficulty being heard. Personally, I don't want to speak loudly and compete to be heard.

So, I'm not inclined to change my natural way of speaking to be higher volume because I get comments that I'm "too quiet" sometimes. However, I'll repeat myself and try to speak louder when someone requests it to facilitate communication, especially if they are hearing-impaired.



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Today, 4:33 pm

When I was young, I used to speak too quietly for many older people to hear.

Now I'm suffering from all the young people who speak to quietly for me to hear.