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Yesterday, 10:41 pm

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Well, the "gal" thing was 40 years ago, and the "India" thing could have been misconstrued. Many companies are notorious for outsourcing their "support" to India because it's cheap, and cheap services are usually poor services. I think timf may have worded his post a little clumsily, but I see no reason to read tons of sexism or racism into it. Aspies can be a tad blunt and it's hard to get these things perfect every time.
Very true. Funny, I have met a few very old gentlemen who call me and other younger than them women gals. It's kind of cute when they say it. I guess it's the same as when they call young men fellows. I think that in some parts of the US, they might still use those words in everyday speech.


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Yesterday, 11:05 pm

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As far as I know, "gal" is just the female form of "guy." But they call anybody a guy these days. They don't call males "gals" though. Don't know why not.



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Today, 12:55 am

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This is not necessarily an either or situation. Laziness can be a cause of those ideas about women.

What you described in your last post is classical gaslighting. Which makes me think sexism might be too mild a word. Maybe misogyny is the correct term. Or it could be ableism or both.
Oh wow, thank you. Gaslighting is actually what it felt like. I just couldn't quite identify the feeling. I think you are right about what you are saying.

Glad to be of help.


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Today, 11:06 am

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This is not necessarily an either or situation. Laziness can be a cause of those ideas about women.

What you described in your last post is classical gaslighting. Which makes me think sexism might be too mild a word. Maybe misogyny is the correct term. Or it could be ableism or both.
Oh wow, thank you. Gaslighting is actually what it felt like. I just couldn't quite identify the feeling. I think you are right about what you are saying.

Glad to be of help.
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