Feeling less of a grown up because people have kids

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chris1989
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14 Feb 2025, 9:28 am

I still live with parents and still not in a relationship and when I see and hear other people the same age or younger who've got married, have a place of their own and have kids, it makes me feel like am "less of an adult". I hate feeling this way.



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14 Feb 2025, 1:58 pm

You are an adult. By the dictionary definition of the term.

Being a grown-up is different than being an adult. Many, many, many grown-ups do not have children.



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14 Feb 2025, 3:05 pm

Having kids doesn't make you a grown up

Taking responsibility for yourself and your family and the world around you whether you have children or not makes you a grown up


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