I probably won't be independent but it's ok

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I think that's ok. I used to feel ashamed about it. But I think part of maturing for me is accepting things, Being able to be reasonable about my support needs, and not being so ashamed. I do need help with my hygeine, cleaning, laundry etc. I can do them on my own but I need a lot of reminders. I need to be safe. I sometimes have poor impulse control and I sometimes ditch my medication.

When I was a teenager I felt embarrassed about my struggles. Now I don't. I just feel like it's best I accept it. I can still live my life to the fullest. I don't need to compare myself to other people my age. I can't drive and I'm ok with it. It bummed me out at first that my siblings were getting their licenses and my cousins. I like to do other things. I enjoy walking. I can't take the bus alone. I used to want to. However I realize I get lost easily and I'm really vulnerable to being manipulated so it's better I am safe .I used to think people were being overprotective.

I love to do a lot of things like painting, writing and drawing. I don't have to let my struggles get to me. Sure they can suck sometimes but I can't dwell on what I can't do. I need to just focus on bettering myself..

great insights. it is definitely OK to accept help and support from others.
Some of us are simply wired in such a way that we will always need others.

Nobody's fault. No shame , no blame.

This seems like a healthy attitude to have.

Accepting one's limitations is sometimes a necessary reality check.

Yeah we've all got our crosses to bear Crystal

You're doing really well and your insights are showing how mature you are becoming as well