Escape1894 wrote:
This results in: women don’t want to be with you cause you have no experience but at the same time, you can’t experience since no woman wants to give it to you..
As a late bloomer who only started having an active dating life in my 30's, I disagree.
Your argument is that A (inexperience) causes B (undesirability). My argument is that A and B are caused by the same things.
When I was a "late bloomer"
* I lacked social skills.
* Had low self-esteem/confidence.
* Lacked a social life, very few friends. Stayed at home a lot.
* I was unkempt. (poorly dressed, bad haircut/grooming)
* I rarely asked women out on a date (and when I did, I got so hung up on the rejection too long)
* The pictures I was using on dating apps weren't great. etc. etc.
All of these things were fixable and once I improved those things, my dating life got a lot better.
Although your dating life improved by doing those things, there certainly was a chance that you doing those things would still have resulted in your dating life staying the same because of your inexperience. As someone who did all of those myself, it still resulted me never having a woman flirt with me/be interested in me.
18 Apr 2025, 10:08 am
