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Mikurotoro92
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27 Apr 2025, 5:53 pm

^I don't want hard lol

I want to stay in "easy mode" but that's not possible in marriage because I have heard it is VERY challenging & difficult!



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27 Apr 2025, 6:09 pm

Nades wrote:
Perhaps you're not as unhappy as you think. You dwell on it a lot and your life can certainly be better, but it's very predicable and could be a lot worse.
It's also possible for someone to be unhappy single & to remain just as unhappy if they get in a relationship or get even more unhappy in a relationship. If anyone thinks that would apply to them it's probably better to remain single unless they meet someone who makes them feel happier.


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27 Apr 2025, 7:47 pm

Mikurotoro92 wrote:
^I don't want hard lol

I want to stay in "easy mode" but that's not possible in marriage because I have heard it is VERY challenging & difficult!

That varies a lot based on the people involved and what the expectations are.



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27 Apr 2025, 8:46 pm

MatchboxVagabond wrote:
Mikurotoro92 wrote:
^I don't want hard lol

I want to stay in "easy mode" but that's not possible in marriage because I have heard it is VERY challenging & difficult!

That varies a lot based on the people involved and what the expectations are.


Yeah some marriages are easier than others!

It all depends on your partner, their temperament and the circumstances of the state of the relationship

But is it not also true that anyone can become abusive?

Even the sweetest man or woman can eventually turn abusive in a marriage if the conditions are right! !!

Once that happens, you fall into imprisonment and the marriage is no longer in "Easy Mode"!



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I don't think anyone can become abusive. People whose values include that violence is wrong wont.

I haven't experienced marriage as being super tough most of the time. You just have to live with the idea you won't get your own way most of the time.

If you have the level or type of ASD where everything needs to be very consistent and structured, then I can see that it might be tough. If you are that type, DEFINITELY DONT HAVE KIDS!