How do you avoid being sexually attractive?

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I'm surprised no one mentioned this (like really surprised), but I just act more obviously autistic (like even in ways that I'm not normally). I stimm like crazy (feels good too!) I would not shave, but I like the feeling of my legs being shaven (?? shaved??). Also, I HAAATE (I tried the whole "never shave my legs", and I just find leg hair super gross and disgusting...) the feeling of having my leg hair like brush against fabric... drives me absolutely insane. I hate smelling bad, and I like being clean so those are out for me personally.
I like comfortable clothing, but occasionally mostly for work or some event- I have to wear "socially appropriate" clothing (read: nice or feminine clothing).
I try not to change myself outfits etc to something I don't already like- because-who has time to dress in a way they don't like just to avoid some attention??
I also rarely leave my house/room (that's very effective- but sometimes not ... like when I go to work!).

Also, I find that speaking anything besides English, Spanish,French is effective- even if it's gibberish.
Also, stare awkwardly.

However, basically, if you aren't an old dead rotting (because apparently necrophilia is a thing & I assume that's with corpses of the not-yet-rotting variety??) corpse 6ft under- you will get attention. Like many others said, there is NOTHING you can do (short of dying-which honestly wouldn't recommend) to be universally repellent or unattractive to every single type of person you encounter. What you wear, to an extent, doesn't really matter much (because everyone is so different in their preferences), and you have to develop coping mechanisms to deal with the spectrum of unwanted (99% of the time male) attention.

Good Luck!

I know this thread is old but it's quite easy to make yourself less attractive. Wear big baggy jeans and t shirt, big oversized glasses, put your hair back in a bun, and do not wear makeup.

I agree with the acting more autistic thing. Acting strange in addition to dressing poorly and having poor hygiene will make a person less attractive.

I'm surprised no one mentioned this (like really surprised), but I just act more obviously autistic (like even in ways that I'm not normally). I stimm like crazy (feels good too!) I would not shave, but I like the feeling of my legs being shaven (?? shaved??). Also, I HAAATE (I tried the whole "never shave my legs", and I just find leg hair super gross and disgusting...) the feeling of having my leg hair like brush against fabric... drives me absolutely insane. I hate smelling bad, and I like being clean so those are out for me personally.
I like comfortable clothing, but occasionally mostly for work or some event- I have to wear "socially appropriate" clothing (read: nice or feminine clothing).
I try not to change myself outfits etc to something I don't already like- because-who has time to dress in a way they don't like just to avoid some attention??
I also rarely leave my house/room (that's very effective- but sometimes not ... like when I go to work!).

Also, I find that speaking anything besides English, Spanish,French is effective- even if it's gibberish.
Also, stare awkwardly.

However, basically, if you aren't an old dead rotting (because apparently necrophilia is a thing & I assume that's with corpses of the not-yet-rotting variety??) corpse 6ft under- you will get attention. Like many others said, there is NOTHING you can do (short of dying-which honestly wouldn't recommend) to be universally repellent or unattractive to every single type of person you encounter. What you wear, to an extent, doesn't really matter much (because everyone is so different in their preferences), and you have to develop coping mechanisms to deal with the spectrum of unwanted (99% of the time male) attention.

Good Luck!

I've got the school teacher/librarian look. Unless a guy has that particular fetish, I'm safe.

I'm pretty obtuse anyway, and don't get it when guys are hitting on me unless they're being bloody obvious.

Pretending to be even more obtuse than that doesn't stop them from trying, but it does encourage them to quit after a while...

Just do something really gross. A guy is bothering you? Pick your nose! Guarantee it will get him to go away.

Act like you're SO sexual and remind everyone how much you like sex, that always makes me wince and wonder what are they compensating for.

I don't have to try to be unattractive, it comes naturally to me.

Likewise. I'm one of society's Plain Janes (apologies to all Janes/Jaynes here), which is why no photographs of me will never be posted online.

To those of you calling yourselves unattractive: Have you ever been called unattractive by other people?

I'm actually considered unattractive in this society. I grew up being called unattractive by kids and adults. Even as an adult I've been called unattractive. Have you ladies had similar experiences?

They are not friends, Clay. You should drop them immediately. A true friend would not behave like that.