Do I have a bad bone structure?

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I had to lighten my hair. I'm
Not sure I'd consider myself chiseled. I think I have more of a baby face.

There is only one thing wrong with your face, and it ain't your cheekbones.

Its that you don't smile enough.

I lose all facial definition when I smile.

Lose a couple of teeth, get stabbed a couple of times---and your face will become more intimidating

Seriously: why ruin a good thing?

There are people who would kill to be as good-looking as you.

You look totally fine.

Please don't take the plastic surgery route. You look fine.

OMG I understand what you mean. So many times I've wished I could look different so they would leave me alone. But then again why should I feel like I have to look a certain way to not be harassed? It should be okay for me to just look the way I do naturally and not worry about who might find it attractive.

I have baby fat on my face too. People assume I am younger than I am and tend to patronize me a lot. My face looks different from different angles though. From one angle my face will look very soft and feminine and from another it will look harder and more masculine. It's almost like a constant flicker of different images. At the same time my expression can be sort of blank sometimes and being pale my features can wash out. I think somehow it lends itself to people just seeing what they want to see in me. One person might think I am sweet and innocent and another might think I'm mean. I never really know what people think unless they tell me. But I've heard so many different things from different people I believe they just see what they want to see.

Please read Autobiography of a Face by Lucy Grealy. I think you would like it.

With your bone structure you could easily make it me dramatic by playing around with make up a bit. I can definitely see you in edge makeup and clothing if that's your style

I don't have a very edgy bone structure but I can go from looking sweet like in my picture to looking edgey

Not to sound mean, but tough cookies. Women are ALWAYS going to be attractive to men they are not attracted to, unless of course the women in downright ugly; which you are far from. You're young and attractive. You're thinking about this WAY too much. I guarantee you, if you wanted a boyfriend(not saying you do) you could get one easily.

It would be really stupid for you to do plastic surgery. Really stupid. Not worth it.

You're beautiful!

This works for me:


Cripes. Now I have to take a shower.

Showers are never bad...especially in the summer

Nothing is wrong with your face. It looks normal with the correct proportions. Many people would like to have that sort of face. Good strong jawline that is still feminine.

My biggest issue is that you ended the video with you switching off the camera. You edited the whole video normally and just decided not to edit the last part.

I just hate that sort of thing in YouTube videos.

I wouldn’t say the OP doesn’t “smile enough” (I’m fed up myself with being told similar stuff), but her facial expression looks insecure about something, and threads like this make me think she’s mistakenly ascribing it to her physical appearance, as others have already pointed out. That’s the only “bad” thing I can see, and it’s bad in the sense that it can both be off-putting and invite abuse. Nothing to do with her bone structure at all. It’d be sad if she were not to overcome whatever is troubling her before it permanently changes her face.

I can see what you mean. Your face looks nice. You look like a really nice and friendly person. But I understand that's not the way you want to look.

A lot of it will change when you get older. And sometimes it's easier when people assume you're a nice and friendly person. You can use that!

Have you tried using make up to change things? I'm not really into that so I can't give you any links.

In general, there really is nothing wrong with your face!

I have been changing my face with makeup. I'm also trying to change it with face exercises. I just hate how bottom heavy it is. I wish it was oval or heart shaped.