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20 Nov 2018, 2:05 pm

Yeah I'm very aware of the risks. Even for legalized sex work like strip dancing it's still very dangerous.

The thing is I don't have any job skills so I figure if something ever happened in the future and I was on my own and lost my disability benefits it's something I could consider to try and make money, and escorts make better money than street prostitutes.

Or I could go into pornagraphy. That's legal sex work right?



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20 Nov 2018, 3:16 pm

You're good at "getting up" I guess...


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20 Nov 2018, 3:29 pm

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You're good at "getting up" I guess...


I'm not that lazy. :lol: I actually do have responsibilities. :P



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20 Nov 2018, 3:41 pm

There are other ways of getting "up"....

It's HARD work and so you must be UP first...

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20 Nov 2018, 3:50 pm

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There are other ways of getting "up"....

It's HARD work and so you must be UP first...

:D


:lol:

I can get easily aroused if that's what you're implying. :mrgreen:



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21 Nov 2018, 2:28 am

envirozentinel wrote:
I think it's even worse for female sex workers. They never know if someone might turn out to be a creep, or even a serial killer.

Or a cop.

There are, of course, ways to minimize this hazard...

1. As a general rule, never meet a man behind closed doors UNLESS he's properly vetted and someone you know you can trust. This is how sex workers (and especially trans ones) get killed. Meet him at a coffee shop or something.
2. Have a good friend watching out for you. Text her, make sure someone always knows where you are and who you're with.
3. Trust your instincts. If a guy seems sketchy, bail.

Of course, the rough reality of this is, a high percentage of women who do sex work can't afford to take those cautionary measures. This is why the passing of SESTA and FOSTA was such a terrible loss; many of the tools we used to stay safe, like social networks etc., were permanently shut down.

Escorting is a fool's game, I seriously wouldn't recommend anyone get into it unless it's absolutely as a last resort. I've honestly been putting more thought into becoming a porn actress, and possibly a camgirl as well. At least those are legal, and a lot safer too :b



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21 Nov 2018, 7:08 am

MushroomPrincess wrote:
envirozentinel wrote:
I think it's even worse for female sex workers. They never know if someone might turn out to be a creep, or even a serial killer.

Or a cop.

There are, of course, ways to minimize this hazard...

1. As a general rule, never meet a man behind closed doors UNLESS he's properly vetted and someone you know you can trust. This is how sex workers (and especially trans ones) get killed. Meet him at a coffee shop or something.
2. Have a good friend watching out for you. Text her, make sure someone always knows where you are and who you're with.
3. Trust your instincts. If a guy seems sketchy, bail.

Of course, the rough reality of this is, a high percentage of women who do sex work can't afford to take those cautionary measures. This is why the passing of SESTA and FOSTA was such a terrible loss; many of the tools we used to stay safe, like social networks etc., were permanently shut down.

Escorting is a fool's game, I seriously wouldn't recommend anyone get into it unless it's absolutely as a last resort. I've honestly been putting more thought into becoming a porn actress, and possibly a camgirl as well. At least those are legal, and a lot safer too :b


Yeah I've been thinking the same exact thing. Gay pornagraphy work might be a lot safer plus it's legal. Also I bet there's more demand for it than being a male stripper which means more money.

I bet I could even do solo videos.



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23 Nov 2018, 11:33 am

Why would gay guys ever need to pay for sex when they've got grindr?



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23 Nov 2018, 12:03 pm

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Why would gay guys ever need to pay for sex when they've got grindr?

The same reason straight guys pay for sex



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23 Nov 2018, 11:57 pm

TW1ZTY wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Why would gay guys ever need to pay for sex when they've got grindr?

The same reason straight guys pay for sex

No straight guys pay for sex because women are less willing to engage in casual sex.



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24 Nov 2018, 8:53 am

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
TW1ZTY wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Why would gay guys ever need to pay for sex when they've got grindr?

The same reason straight guys pay for sex

No straight guys pay for sex because women are less willing to engage in casual sex.

And some gay guys have a hard time finding guys who will f**k them too.

If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you prick us do we not bleed? If you poison us do we not die? :roll:



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24 Nov 2018, 3:20 pm

TW1ZTY wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
TW1ZTY wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Why would gay guys ever need to pay for sex when they've got grindr?

The same reason straight guys pay for sex

No straight guys pay for sex because women are less willing to engage in casual sex.

And some gay guys have a hard time finding guys who will f**k them too.

If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you prick us do we not bleed? If you poison us do we not die? :roll:

That's very rare.



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24 Nov 2018, 4:22 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
TW1ZTY wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
TW1ZTY wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Why would gay guys ever need to pay for sex when they've got grindr?

The same reason straight guys pay for sex

No straight guys pay for sex because women are less willing to engage in casual sex.

And some gay guys have a hard time finding guys who will f**k them too.

If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you prick us do we not bleed? If you poison us do we not die? :roll:

That's very rare.

Heh, I wish. I'd love the dark gift of immortality for being gay. :skull: :twisted: :skull:



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27 Nov 2018, 10:21 am

What do you all think of "Temple Grindin" as a stage name for an autistic porn actress? :B



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29 Nov 2018, 6:53 am

MushroomPrincess wrote:
What do you all think of "Temple Grindin" as a stage name for an autistic porn actress? :B

I'm not sure tbh. :lol:



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18 Dec 2018, 5:22 pm

TW1ZTY wrote:
As a gay man that's the whole reason I was considering this. I figured since I'm already gay it would be easier.


Well (stating the bleeding obvious here like lol), it would understandably be a lot harder for you to have sex with a woman than a man (unless you're not exclusively gay of course!), and I doubt you would get any/much pleasure from it, so it would be a lot easier to go with a man for you.

There's also the fact that you may have to be sexually versatile, if you're to be a successful m2m escort (you would have to be willing to be both top and bottom, depending on the client(s)).

If u think u could do it, then do all the research you can, on how to stay safe from potential bad nuts, and how to build a reputation as a "good f**k" and easy to do business with, and ALWAYS use protection, and reject anyone who won't, whatever reason they give, give them their money back if they have already handed it over and leave. Carry a weapon to defend yourself with (as a very last resort), and even with protection, get checked at your nearest sexual health clinic as often as possible.

I don't speak from personal experience as a sex worker or a punter, or even from researching, just basic common sense. Also, noted that u said u was just "being crazy" due to a change in your medication, but just in case you do decide to go through with it, get in the know and make sure you know how to look after yourself in every way necessary. Though, tbh, if the benefit(s) you're on allow it, maybe just get a part time job instead? Much safer and you won't have to feel bad about "whoring yourself out" :wink:


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