What would your ideal partner be like?

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The place of the ideal person is always a vacancy. Take it!

The only potential issue I'd see is that we'd have to discuss if things could be open (or some other solution, given that I'm not an ace). Background isn't really important to me and I appreciate darker women as much as any others.

Hmm...

a short, eccentric pervert who smokes weed and has a cynical sense of humour... and able to tolerate me, obviously.

-Someone whose spirit is completely synergistic with mine
-Who doesnt mind my facial hair and ridiculous need to perform... lol
-who is flexible enough to perform couples yoga. (Or regular )
- enjoys camping and the outdoors and not afraid to get dirty when necessary.
-someone who is not interested in how many likes and followers their nudes can get...
-who is not addicted to social media
-someone musically talented to duet with
-someone who is partially or completely self-aware and just wants to be a better person than the day b4 every day...
-cares about their health slightly or a lot...

Lets catch a vibe...

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-Someone who doesn't smoke or do recreational drugs (except for medical reasons). I'd rather not be involved in that and my asthma is quite sensitive to cigarette smoke so I couldn't be with a smoker.

-Preferably someone who has a creative pursuit of some kind. We're more likely to get on if we have a shared interest.

- Either agnostic or an atheist. Granted, this is a controversial pick, but I think I'd have an easier time with someone with similar beliefs.

- Not superstitious. I'm not into tarot readings, horoscopes or theories about ghosts.

- Likes cats or at the very least doesn't hate them. If she prefers dogs, that's fine (especially if it's due to an allergy), but if she just flat out hates cats then no thanks.

- Someone who likes the outdoors. The type of person I could go on walks with, go travelling and possibly camping.

- Exclusive, monogamous. I don't think I'd want to be in an open relationship.

- Doesn't play hard to get. I'm unlikely to pick up on that and I'd rather not chase you because I'll feel like you're relying on me for validation, rather than actually being interested in me as a person.

- Someone out of the closet. I don't want to feel like a secret.

Me in a black miniskirt and black nylon stockings.

Hmm.. I likewise want someone similar to myself, the main point being confident.

Nice smile and like above someone who wants to explore and question things.

Not a yes man, 9-5, 40 hour a week, same same, year after year person.

A challenger but yeah most importantly a smile love, connection, embrace, touch.

SkinnedWolf

somebody very much like myself.

19th Century, 300 pages, and Gothic.

When will you pop the question, Funeral?

Sounds like a consummate thing you both have.

my dream partner is unreachable, but not in a way i think people would expect. in terms of looks and personality i don't really care at all. if i don't find one of those repulsive, i'd probably settle with the person.

the problem is i am extremely terrified of the part of a relationship that comes before "settling down". when i even think of asking someone out, going on a date, having your first kiss, holding hands for the first time etc; my stomach starts to turn. my dream relationship is "spawning" into a home with a partner, pet, photo albums and every other little thing already being placed there. live out the awkward phase with this person in a parallel dimension or something and just start from there. which is, surprisingly, impossible.

^^^you CAN do it!

One individual's ideal might be another individual's reality somewhere, and vice versa.

Mix of a timid cat, a lazy dog and a 5-10 year old fat autistic kid. Like me :3

For example, today I jumped on my bicycle and wandered around like a cat, fetched (groceries) like a dog, and played little bit on a playground on my way back, like a kid.

Is anyone like that out there? :3

that would be me although i take pains to be slender for my age group.