What NT people say & what they really mean

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"cool", "good", etc:. They are judgmental and see the world in black and white. They expect you to say "thank you" for the compliment

"Sucks", "unfortunate", etc. They are showing sympathy and act like they did you a favor when all they did was flap their stupidass trap. As though they expect everything to be fortunate according to their standards

"Why?". They don't like what you are doing and they act like they have the veto authority over any of your actions just because they don't like it. The question "why?" Could be justified in some situations but only when applied equally to things that appear good according to their standards



"Do you mind?", "Yes" or "no" indicates consent

"Can you", if you "can", you have to. Doesn't matter how unreasonable

"I can't" I don't want to


"Does that make sense?". Not everything makes sense. Unless you can spot the hidden logical fallacy in my statement and explain in a way that satisfies me, you have to do it my way



"Disrespectful", "rude". Trump card. I don't like it and that means precious lil "people" don't like it so you need to stop



"You need to", . My orders take precedence over the Maslow hierarchy of needs



"What?", "Huh?" "Eh", "ha", hm?". They act like every thought and emotion that goes through their stupidass head is the latest greatest scientific invention. When you make the mistake of saying the slightest thing they have the nerve to grunt "huh" and "what?" Like it's the etiquette equivalent of"excuse me"



"Are you ok?". I don't have the skill or authority to help you but you "need" to say "thank you" regardless because I "care" about you


"How are you doing?". Any answer besides "fine" and "good" met with useless annoying scrutinizing misunderstanding questions. But there are five emotions and happy is just one of them





"You got mad". My actions are perfect because I am perfect. You don't have a moral right to express any reaction other than passive aggressively tolerate. (Unless I am successfully trying to provoke you)




Uppity dipshit extroverts