autism and challenges w/ working customer service/cashier

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im the opposite i have no issue with authoritising customers because i cant feel what theyee feeling and i am not a people pleaser

not that i go around upsetting people but i dont go around trying to be nice to people either
.yoy might say im stoic and hitler like

i know how to keep order on my bus

I don't have a problem telling people "no" either, but stores usually have a policy in some form of "the customer is always right." Which is totally wrong. So now you're dealing with two wrong entities that are ready to blame you for any meager loss of money. Not an optimal situation.

My first job at 16 was the garden dept. at Sears. At 19 and 21 I was a cashier at two different Kmarts (for those of you wondering, Kmart was like Walmart).

I found cashiering incredibly boring and liked when there were no customers, as I was just standing there. Meanwhile the NT one lane over was like, "Oh I'm so bored, where are the customers??" I thought she was nuts. I liked just standing there daydreaming in my own world or people watching.

I was a very efficient, fast cashier, able to do the whole thing faster than most cashiers -- you know how some cashiers just DAWDLE and move like they're underwater? I was speedy.

I didn't do small talk, but responded on automatic pilot if a customer asked how my day was going. It costs nothing to just say "Good."

At one of the Kmarts the same people would come through. There were these ladies who were identical twins and always dressed the same. I'd think, "The twins" when I saw them in my lane. There was this friendly husky guy who would initiate small talk. I was fine with that, because he always had STUBBLE -- the good kind of stubble -- and this is a VERY STRONG visual sensory seek for me. I LOVE staring at a man's stubble, if it's the good kind.

So as we were chatting, I'd occasionally drop my eyes to look at his stubble. But I did that for only a moment, and back to eye contact, because I thought that if I maintained "stubble contact," he'd then think I was flirting with him or something.

I never had sensory issues with the sounds or lights, though hated that the same Muzak system looped over and over, and I'd hear the same songs repeatedly throughout the day. In summary, I was pretty much a Vulcan just going through the motions.

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So today I got kinda overwhelmed (not in the meltdown sense), so I had a "yknow what, the mask is coming OFF" moment
And ended up stimming in very obvious and very weird ways as a way to self regulate. I suppose to the customers it probably just looked like I had a lot of energy.

See, the thing is right now we have "asset protection" peeking in our cameras due to one too many missing money incidents. So I'm wondering if someone from corporate was watching me being extremely weird in front of customers and if I might get in trouble for it.

Love when customers be yelling on their phones while I'm checking them out. It really overloads my sensories.