shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
... She speaks Spanish (I don't) and she said "chino" was "racial slurs" and "harassment"...
Fnord wrote:
The word "Chino" is used in some Spanish-speaking cultures the same way that some English-speaking cultures use the word "Asian"...
OP's ethnicity is unknown to me. But in Spanish, «chino» doesn't necessarily refer to a nationality.
In Spanish, "curly hair" is said «cabello chino». In Spanish-speaking countries «chino» is a very common nickname used for people with curly hair. If OP has curly hair, probably that's another explanation.
Independently if they are calling you «chino» because of your ethnicity or your hair, it's less likely a Latino pretends to be offensive. It's part of their culture. I know what they are doing is not correct, but you shouldn't take it personal.
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